He is my 4th man in my life. Both more than merit seeking some support. Have a great day, Ninee! We had some incredible, blissful, loving times together, but I was always putting in the work to get us there. This is not always the case, however. Determine what you want for your future. I do everything I can for her.
She may feel that your hobbies get in between you and her. Neither is it worthwhile judging yourself for feeling jealous, which is a normal emotion. It has ups and downs. At this moment I asked her we should have a break. I honestly dont know if Im coming or going. And it definitely does not start from jumping into sex, despite, again, what movies tell us.
But I would like to challenge us to stay faithful for the next six months. I don't know how much spare time you have with your job, but it would be worthwhile at least from my experience. I have no passion for him and really apart from the 1st few month together I never did. I know im very complicated also, I say everything i think or feel, so he thinks im mean, I think im tough love because im not submissive or sweet. She was married for 60 years and the reporter asked her how she managed too stay in love with the same man all this time. What would happen if you decided that none of these beliefs were true? So once I was freed from those low emotions, I was finally able to think objectively about my life and work towards either fixing my marriage or walking away. It of course was amazing and we even talked about getting together, me leaving my husband.
How would I know that? But the problem is that this tends to backfire. I was never very talkative except with my friends but whenever he talks to me I become contrary simply because I get so irritated with him. Peace of mind and self respect are what truly matter. Our lives are bittersweet, filled with pain and joy, loss and blessings. Do you often only see the good in people and miss the full picture? We frankly only slept together twice since we have been married.
There are many ways to change this dynamic. I still love this man even though he seemingly does not love me anymore. I want my wife back. I have thought about an affair because I want that side of things but not attracted to him in that way anymore. The other person makes me happy and sexy but I do not want to marry him — just be in a loose relationship for now. Just turned 27, have a daughter who is 7, and been together 10 years and he is addicted to porn.
It would be insanity to think that doing the same thing over and over would give a different result. Communication died off in the next few days as his attitude stank! Our children are grown and have left home. There is an empty hole in my heart. I was under the influence all the times, especially back in college. He never complains about coming home and the dishes not being done, he always appreciates my efforts of house keeping and cleaning and cooking. Im sorry for the long text … i have noone to talk to because if i do i will be ridiculed and laughed at. I cry a lot and according to him I am at fault for everything.
We have good time but again sometimes I feel he is different when his friends and family are around. And while the behaviors of the cheating spouse are never validated, there are some situations where the environment of the marriage has primed the temptation of an affair. Can you give him time and space? In some way I feel ashamed about being abused. And, yes, we have the same success rate even if your spouse doesn't want to be there. She refused mentioning that he just another friend but very close nd she likes her. We have been married for 12 years and financially we have struggled since the beginning.
Have a great day, Confused! Discussed this anger and how far you feel from being able to love? This is why university becomes a place many people finally meet real friends or love, because instead of always being told what to do or pressured to do things by parents and peers, they choose what courses they want, they join groups they like, and they naturally meet people who appreciate them more as they have more in common. I am wondering as he still cares for me I can feel that, we have a kid and he loves him so much. If your spouse is involved with someone else, you can walk away if you wish. For my husband…I do love him but I just miss this other guy alot. Here is where the importance of communicating comes to play. Yet that may be the reason it sucks so bad: I'm sad about losing her, but also realising this would probably happen with anyone I was with It's early days in my battle.