My ex and I were together for 22 months before breaking up. It sounds like a lot of people on here are under the assumption that this guy is going to put his baby first above the new gf and can she handle that, but why would you stay with a guy who was putting you first above his child??? But the principle remains the same. So, what I have done is compiled a list of the best guides I have written on Ex Boyfriend Recovery for building attraction. We were living together for 8 months. Noone has ever made me feel so special and I know I deserve it. If not for yourself, then think about the child involved. He finally chose to move away for work and to start over fresh.
Why was she hiding this? I doubt a woman her age is making this up. It was a very high stress situation and I guess that I was the one to break up with him. My heart goes out to other women like me who face some very lonely stressful hours facing the truth of a dangerous situation that ultimately isnt fair for you. He is there not only for his daughter but also the mother because; like he says, helping the mother makes life better for his daughter. Most of us take that risk. I think that I just want to have some sort of civil but open relationship with him for the sake of our child that will be here in just over 4 months.
And if he meets her criteria and he is still available after a longer period of time,they can try dating again. This site complies with the for trustworthy health information:. Of course, pregnancy seems to do that to women too. I am changing my answer because two questions were merged and my original answer said something about abuse and this question is not saying anything about abuse which changes my answer completely. She decided she wanted to have the baby so he attended prenatal classes, bought all the baby supplies like crib, diapers etc. Or just wing it and see if he shows up? After some months had passed she brought the baby here to visit with her family. I really really like my boyfriend, I may even love him.
The tug or pull of an ex can be strong. This Internet site provides information of a general nature and is designed for educational purposes only. And I was on birth control. All first time parents are novices when it comes to raising a child. His haggard face after being badgered by her confused and pained me.
I have been single for 2 years, so I am standoffish. I am very young, I'll barely be 18 by the time I have my baby. We were still very early stages of dating but getting serious. We started to argue and in the argument I let him know I was keeping the baby. I was hurt and upset that I got pregnant on birth control never missed a pill.
They broke up for a reason. Dating someone for two months is not a long time at all and it sounds like she jumped into a relationship with this guy. And you said you're pretty calm about it which is good. He's very unstable and has changed what he thinks we should do pretty much daily from abortion to keeping the baby. It might take him a day or two to really truly process what happened. We are very open and honest with eachother he is a genuine guy and loyal. Gone are the nights where they can stay out all night and get drunk with their friends.
He took my virginity when i was 15 and we grew apart. Finally i just knew it was going to break me. He always said that he loved me and wanted to be with me he just needed the time to be right to break it to his family. I worried more then him I suspect. Odds are if they wreere in a relationship long, they may get back together despite what they want right now.
At the same time, I am scared of having my first child as a single woman. I'm so lost but very early in the pregnancy so I have a lot of time to decide, but it's all I can think of all day and night. For the longest time he was used to her begging, used to her trying to reason with him and then all of a sudden it all stopped. I totally get that and I promise you that I am going to impart as much wisdom as I possibly can on you to make sure you can achieve that goal. Is it because I decided to keep the baby?! This also pained me, to think a pregnant women was feeling extra vulnerable knowing her prospective partner was dating while she was pregnant. My point is that you should just move on.