This is a guy speaking. There was no way I was going to go down on a girl I just picked up at the bar. It just so happens that pubic hair, even a little bit of it, can capture and hold onto the body's pheromones. And there are few tortures greater than the itch of growing back a shaven muff. I've tried to go down on women before, and it's been traumatic for the both of us—me because of the repulsion, and my partner because, obviously, no one likes to be told her genitals are in any way unpleasant. My girlfriend doesn't keep hers perfectly shaven, but at least she trims.
How long it takes you to come. The biggest arousal killer in bed is when she's insecure about her looks. So the perfect vagina would be the one that feels the best. It's like shaving your legs: It grows back thicker, darker, and not as attractive. How big or small it is. It depends on the person. If you are going to keep the hair on, keep it trimmed down.
It is helpful and especially for other girls and women who rather have bare skin too. I didn't change my pace or anything, and just as I got about ten meters away he veered off to the smokers section without any warning, leaving his mate to walk past me with a dumb look on his face. At least that's what some men think. You might see your vagina's entrance as a tentacle-monster we'll have to bat away with an oar like a salty fisherman. Stay safe ladies and stay warm. And some guys do think that too. If I were you, I'd hold off on the shaving until you knew if your man would like it.
There is almost no way that it would worth it, right? It doesn't have to be perfectly manicured. In my own opinion I would never expect a guy to go near me unshaven, I hate the thought of it and shave every second day to make sure it never returns. Photo by Cameron Whitman via Stocksy Kent, 34 I started dating a girl who worked at Hooters and had a lot of issues. For some reason the deoderant prevents it. Other women like a fullbeard and mustache. I think everyone should try to be confident, but even though I've never been beat up or anything, on the rare occasion when I do get into fights it does take it out of me, even when normally they just stand there throwing punches widely.
I just like the overall feel a lot better and think it looks better. A woman who goes bare is sexy, but might also be insecure about her womanhood. There is a trick to preventing that. Either way, sensations that are mildly unpleasant for most people are wildly intolerable for me. It's up to the woman. This is actually pretty cool and we'd like to think it's happening because of us. Also, shaving it all is just plain itchy! It need to be white kind not the stuff that is clear.
It can't or won't make me finish; I usually end up pulling them off me and having intercourse. If something doesn't feel right, or you need us to speed up or slow down, say something. Just reminds me of pre-pubescent girls. Any sounds your vagina may make during intercourse. Like all good bikini-line-managers, she establishes if you want to leave a vertical section intact generally known as the Brazilian landing strip and even asks you to check her handy-work upon completion. A male reader, anonymous, writes 26 September 2007 : Hi, I am a man and I do prefer it to be shaved down there.
The bane of many a woman's existence. These products to help stunt the hair growth too. I would do it, because she asked me to and I'm not a completely selfish asshole, but I didn't enjoy it. Is it worth the effort? How is shaving your genitals any different? A reader, anonymous, writes 7 February 2010 : i, personally, prefere shaved. After you have gotten out of the shower and shaved with very warm water to open the pores around the hair. Richard Pryor once did a routine where he said that if a woman thought she had a bad pussy, she should let him try it out. It's kind of funny—the only girl I've ever gone down on regularly was my most recent girlfriend, and it was because she actually really enjoyed giving head.
Woman are, most of all, mysterious creatures, and nothing pleases me more in a sexual encounter than for my tongue to move through the sweetest hair to find that hidden treasure that she hopes it will find. On the flip side, if you keep yours trimmed or bare, you have every right to expect a return from him. Most women's leg hair is pretty fine and sparse anyway. Like I said, I don't expect blowjobs from my girlfriends, ever. Just kidding—they all talk back. I mean, not all vaginas are created equal—I know that from hard, traumatic personal experience.
A reader, anonymous, writes 21 February 2007 : Id say normalish, but not too long. The first was when he was at the pub with like ten of his mates. I would hate to think that anyone and I know that some do would feel the need to go through so much trouble, discomfort, pain so often for so little of a pay off. No giant elephant-ear labia and thumb-sized clits for me, please! You've got that clitoris that is out just enough to give the perfect tease. Instead of not making eye contact with him like my mates from school, I looked over and made eye contact—just naturally, but not avoiding looking. Looks like the mega-bush is here to stay. However, once I get super comfortable with a guy, I hope he doesnt mind a little bit of hair.
I'm sure there is some explanation, something from someone's past, but god knows if anyone can really explain it logically. I don't have a problem going down on a girl with hair, but being able to run your tongue all over and around smoothly is a winner for both parties involved. It helps with the smell and you don't have to keep grooming every day. Over 60 per cent of men prefer a more womanly flower. Instead, I got endless emails from boys bragging: If they were Popeye, pussy was their spinach. The cognitation is to attract a guy and invite him to look, touch, feel and get intimate! It's much less painful for everyone to skip the whole ordeal. A female reader, anonymous, writes 24 April 2009 : basically shaved is bad because of the feel after about a day.