It is important you show your concern and love for your girlfriend, your moral support will be a comfort to her and will give her the confidence to be honest. So saying something, and doing something about this is not wrong. Anyways, he just started drinking today. He hides bottles in his car and all around the house. I still have a hard time understanding it even though I see it in him every day.
He calls it joking with the meat counter guys. He never becomes violent or cruel when he drinks. Every action on any of our parts shakes the mobile. He hurts me and I feel like I have to protect him? We got along so well we ended up dating. I feel lile he isnt happy with me because he goes to the bar everynight. I had to ask my boss for an upfront of my salary and had to tell her why, and I had an abortion.
Did not drink a lot because my kids have been 1. He would always come in when I was working, and we hit it off. We been engaged over a year now and dated longer before that. A black eye or worse… or losing my best friend and not being able to help him. Get advice, strategies, tips, and support.
Little did I know the entire time we dated he was talking to other girls and telling all his friends that I was living on the streets and how he took me in. At that point I asked Jack if he remembered what we had talked about during his private session. I have a glass of wine with dinner once or twice a week, and I'll drink a couple of beers at parties. Maybe you leaving will be a wakeup call for him, or maybe not. Him and his friends now drink every single weekend, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Each of us has our own little piece of the delicately balanced structure. Just the other night I had asked him to slow down a little since he had already finished a 12-pack, but he looked at me like he was doing nothing wrong, and chugged half a mikki of vodka as I asked him to know his limit.
Never really got drunk together. I felt we were truly soul mates. He is killing himself and I am watching. They both have gone through so much when it came to me and my brother. I told him last night that I wont b giving our son his last name when I give birth. He would tell me the next day how I acted and what I said and I remembered none.
With me — he is impatient and is disrespectful. She is a very successful saleswoman and provides well for herself and her daughter. Claudia was startled because Jack so seldom verbalized his love for her. I have known he has had a drinking problem for the past couple of years. Again I thank you for your advice, I will take educated, well thought out actions. Its plain to see nothing matters but the drink and thats it.
Last night he came over and I found a water bottle filled with vodka in his laptop bag. When we first got together we used to party and go out drinking all the time. My mother and I had a huge blowout with him lasting about 4-5 hours until he finally started to sober up. This started to take a toll on our relationship because I don't always like to drink. His work would be able to move us around and get us to better areas for our entire family to flourish. But at least he's willing to try counseling.
When I was home with a very sick baby and he was out drinking with his brother until 3:30 a. That was heartbreaking to hear. A seriously hot one too. Lived w him a few times my house of course. His mom used to be the type of alcoholic who gets verbally and physically aggressive and abusive.