You just have to find a normally non-sexual object or action arousing—an association you probably formed in childhood, says Samantha Leigh Allen, who studies sexual fetishism at Emory University. Woman A: The shape of the foot, like a size 10, very masculine, and clean and strong. It may be worth mentioning that my girlfriend sells socks and hosiery to other pervs, and it's never bugged me. It's totally normal, believe it or not. It may seem like just feet, but as you said in your post- she could at least make him hard by painting her toes his favorite color- blue. White, light blue, French—anything along those lines.
So what, she's getting off on a little male attention that's not from you? Just don't get in your own way and ruin a good thing. I think we'll have to agree to disagree on this one. It was a huge moment for him and he wanted her support, but she felt completely betrayed and the marriage foundered. People do have sexual fetishes. Has she given you any other indication that she's done something like this? Just kidding, I know they were liars. See how he or she reacts.
Her reaction will tell you what you need to know. I don't get off on it, and I think that's an important distinction, wouldn't lump the two together Eh, I threw it in as a possibility of why it might be approved of. You have a right to feel those emotions, but nobody has a right to burden another person with their delusions. I never did it — I didn't get the job, Still, this was a pretty funny story to me — but he sat through it silently. Even if your girlfriend wasn't the one getting off, she was actively and voluntarily a part of this guy's sexual act.
As for her, since she brought up your name and said no to sleeping with him before deciding to indulge his sexual fetish, then in a twisted way everything up to actually sleeping with him wouldn't really be cheating. One of the most popular fetishes on the celebrity block is the foot fetish. Man A: I like when a girl has skinnier feet and longer toes, but not too long. I always look at his feet whether we are outside or in the house. Interesting way to look at it, with one caveat.
And her response to him should have been that his requests and talk about his sexual fetishes with her were inappropriate. If I were you I'd bring it up, mention that she left her Facebook logged in on your computer and you happened to see the exchange and that you are uncomfortable with her apparent indulgence of this guy rather than shutting him down altogether. Man B: Giving one is more difficult to fully perfect. It makes me kind of uncomfortable and grossed out. And as much as I liked that he was getting a kick out of it, I became really bored. You need to work out how integral this is to the way you experience sexual gratification and then take the time to talk it through. Usually after I show it to people, they say they never realized how sexy feet can be.
They enjoy the complete role reversal and often find it deeply satisfying. Does he know all of your sexual thoughts, fantasies, secrets? If not, it's entirely possible that the idea of blue nail polish appealed to her this time. Man A: I realized that I had a thing for feet around 4th grade, around age 10. I am so shocked by all of this and am trying to look for answers as to why and how someone develops fetishes like this. She might also reveal fetishes or sexual interests of her own. Yes, she turned him down, but it certainly puts a rather damning context around her damn toenail color now.
I also like nicely shaped toenails. Has anyone else had a girl with a weird ass fetish like this or am I just overreacting? Has anyone else had a girl with a weird ass fetish like this or am I just overreacting? She showed me, and you guessed it. If you don't accept your fetish as a normal part of yourself, you're unlikely to enjoy your fetish. And if you haven't done it, let me explain: You lie on our stomach, engage your core and squeeze your thighs so the arches of your feet make a hole. Anything can be a fetish, and having a sexual fetish is not uncommon.
Or buy her a toy foot, keeps em occupied for hours! Otherwise, it may be too much, too soon. Check out our list of celebrities with foot fetishes and see if your favorite celebrity has one! She might not see the act non physical as crossing a boundary and, more to the point, may be unaware that it is something that could bother you. This might help your partner understand what you want. This article has also been viewed 74,128 times. He said that he wanted her to take him hostage and use him for her pleasure. Consider whether your fetish harms anyone.
His fetishes are quite normal and actually common among many men. Part of my defense of them is that I know many good people who happen to be religiously sex-negative. I sometimes get lost staring at him as he massages them. And if you hook up afterward, ask her to leave the stilettos on. I don't mind at all! Woman A: I like to worship my guy's feet. Man B: I usually just start by offering a foot massage.
She may feel embarrassed and put a stop to it. Man A: Keep an open mind. Sometimes it'd be a foot job from start to finish, while others were during foreplay and I didn't climax from them. It makes me kind of uncomfortable and grossed out. Don't go straight for the feet or you may freak your partner out. How does your lady or man react when you go for the feet? If you have different sexual needs than your partners, recognize this and seek alternatives.