. Plus, it's easier for her to move up and down, and back and forth in that position. When you want to make a baby: missionary. Sex Position: Pole Position Also known as: Thighmaster Benefits: Dual stimulation for her; for you—a great view of her rear and your penis entering her. As a plus-size princess your man may think that you feel most comfortable in missionary. Sex Position: Butter Churner Also known as: Squat Thruster Benefits: An extra rush of blood to her head to increase her ecstasy.
Also try: With your legs outside of hers, use your thighs to squeeze her knees together, which tightens her vagina around your penis. Facing away from him, the receiver straddles his hips and knees with legs astride him, and then slides him into her. The Seated Position Another great position for overweight people is the seated position, in which the partners use a chair to have intercourse. Maintain a sense of humor. Lube your crack generously and let him slide away between your cheeks.
These sexual practices also tend to be easier than coitus when both partners are overweight. Sex Position: Closed for Business Benefits: A variation of One Up that allows for slow buildup. Doing it in the kitchen can provide a much-needed change of scene — plus access to a handy prop that'll help you achieve deeper penetration. Not only can it help increase your arousal — in turn making you wetter and lowering the odds of painful entry — but can obviously be it's own form of lubricant. Have her bend her legs about 45 degrees to tilt her hips up. How to: This is a modified. This can bring you both great pleasure.
The partner who is laying down can stimulate themselves or their partner with their hands at the same time. Sex Position: Heir to the Throne Also known as: Lazy Girl Benefits: The ultimate sex position for oral on the go, use this to get her in the mood and help her cut loose. Sex Position: Reverse Cowgirl Also known as: Rodeo Drive, Half Way Around the World Benefits: With a pillow under your head, you get an awesome view of her backside. Sex Position: Iron Chef Also known as: Kitchen Confidential Benefits: Good sex position for a quickie with deep penetration. Hold on to one of his legs and use the other to give yourself yourself some vibe or hand love — the extra movement can propel you into a rhythm you'll both go nuts for. But when one partner is substantially taller or shorter than the other? Size does matter — in that it dictates how you play the game.
Alternate between shallow and deep thrusts. That grinding action will help make your clit happy. Pinball Wizard Women's Health How to: Get into a partial bridge position, with your weight resting on your shoulders. Sex Position: H2Ohh Yeah byron gray Also known as: Aquaman's Delight Benefits: Good for an outdoors quickie, while still avoiding prying eyes. Kneeling, she lowers herself onto your penis and begins riding you.
The contrast between soft flesh of the tongue and hard bone of the finger will create a pleasing sensation. If she's very flexible, lift her leg over your shoulder. Plus, this one gives great G-spot stimulation, says Kerner. Learning to love your body will help free your mind and allow for positive sexual encounters. The following are a few sex positions that promote safe, enjoyable sex while avoiding common problems caused by weight or size.
This position creates a snug fit—which intensifies her pleasure by making you feel larger to her. Since this old standby is not getting you to where you want to be, you may want to add to this position without tossing it out. Ask your partner to reposition his body a bit higher so his pelvis is right against your clitoris, says Kerner. Hot tip: Less friction means less stimulation—and can help you last longer. Bonus: This position is prime for some extra clit action from your partner. She will bend her right leg around the right side of your waist, which will give you access to enter her vagina. Hot tip for her: From this position, she can easily reach down to stimulate herself or direct your penis to where it feels best.
Why it works: This gives you some great stimulation, and you can go as deep as you like depending on your thrusts, says Kerner. This position gives both partner's ease of movement while being up close and personal, so an easy rhythm can be achieved for their mutual fulfillment. Now she wants to help you keep things spicy and fresh between the sheets. Standing Missionary Sexy standing positions are often winners. The end effect of both is the same: It helps make positions that might otherwise be difficult to pull off significantly easier.
While this position is a natural for G-spot stimulation, it can be a winner for your clitoris, too. Make sure you're covered too with a buzzy vibe or hand on your clit. From here, she should bend her right leg around the right side of your waist—allowing full access to her vagina. As you stand behind her, have her arch her back so it lifts her butt upward. Pick up a copy of the first African American Kama Sutra book, SoulMates: An Illustrated Guide to Black Love, Sex, and Romance. Elle says: 'This is my favourite position because of all the ways it can be customised.